Hiking in Arizona with my adventurous husband Kyle! |
I can remember being asked by many a job interviewer: "How do
you handle change?"
“Oh, me? I love change. Yes, I’m very flexible, really go
with the flow.” Yeah, right.
Maybe I wasn’t completely honest, but who hasn’t put
themselves in the best possible light in front of others? Easy going. Carefree.
Peaceful. All things I strive to be and qualities I want to be known for having.
Instead, I've often been more familiar with less appealing
words. Rigid. Planned. Stressed.
My husband is much more adventurous than I am. Which is good
for me. He gently nudges, and sometimes pushes, me out of my comfort zone. He’ll
whisper to me: "Kendra, you’ll regret it if you don’t try.” They are words that
come to my mind even when he is not around. And so I’ve climbed mountains,
gone on crazy rides, eaten exotic foods and so many more things I would’ve
never done on my own.
But I've realized that he’s right. Looking for adventure, not
always having a plan, trying something new, allowing yourself to change can be
fun. And freeing.
Change is good. Scary, but good.
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We were meant to live life fully.
Allowing for change. That is the only way away from words
like rigid. Scared. Stressed.
We were meant to experience life and freedom.
We were meant for change.
I try so hard to roll with it. But I totally know I've grown after each change. The tricky part is remembering that at the outset of those changes. :-)
ReplyDeleteExactly! That's the hard part!
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