25 Days of Kindness

December 29, 2014

Happy Monday! Thanks for being here for Make A Difference Monday, a place to get intentional about starting our week focused on the positive and dream up ways we can make a difference in the world. Kendra, Julie, and I are excited to continue co-hosting MADM for the next few weeks, and hope you'll join us!

As the final days of December wind down, we wanted to take a look back at this year's Advent Acts of Kindness and invite you to join us in our 25 Days of Kindness Facebook group for next Christmas! It'll be a positive place to share some Christmas cheer and we'd love for you to join us! 

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Writing letters to Post Pals
Here's a look back at what we did each day:

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 1: Donated extra coats and snow pants to my daughter's school for families to borrow or keep.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 2: Wrote letters through Post Pals. Even though we want to incorporate new things each year, there are some things my kids love to repeat, including writing letters to children who are ill through an organization called Post Pals. Jasmine has done this every year for the past three years! This year, she wrote a letter to a little girl her age named Annabelle who likes cats and princesses.

Creating DreamCatchers
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 3: Decided to be Bheveni DreamCatchers! We decorated jars with LOTS of glitter glue and plan to collect change from now until Christmas to help build a building in Swaziland. Right now, children gather in a small building for lessons, singing, and learning. Only about 60 people are able to stand shoulder-to-shoulder, so many end up sitting outside in the hot sun. We're hoping to help change that reality!
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 4: Wrote encouraging notes and included gift cards for a fun coffee shop treat! We then placed them under random windshields today.  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 5: The boys, Donnie and Abram, made cards and sent basic necessities to soldiers overseas through Operation Gratitude.

A letter for military personnel overseas
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 6: We collected baby items to help out a couple of local charities. When we were at Target, Noelle chose her items based on color (pink, purple, yellow), while Elise chose them based on size (the bigger, the better) -- but it's the thought that counts, right?!  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 7: Joined with Catholic Charities to support the St. Cloud Children's Home. 

Food for the food shelf
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 8: Bought extra meals tonight for Donnie and Kyle to give to someone who is homeless.  
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 9: Brought a meal to a family with a new baby.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 10: Bought bags of food for our local food shelf.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 11: Picked out a present for someone else through WorldVision. This year, the kids chose:

Clean water: "Because every 15 seconds someone dies from unsafe water."
A cow: "So they have something to ride and milk to drink."
Medicine: "To help sick babies."

Newborn care package: "Because that's what Eleanor (the baby) would like."
Choosing items from the WorldVision catalog
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 12: Shopped for items for Happy Tails Rescue. My kids are in love with the animals (Elise wanted me to read each one's name off their website), and we narrowly avoided adopting an animal. Seriously. Did you know you can pick things right off their Amazon Wish List and send them?
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 13: Delivered Christmas treats to the local fire department.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 14: Brought gifts and thank yous to our local grocery store for a cashier and grocery bagger who always greet us with a smile, warm hello, and greeting by name. They have become a highlight of my and Eleanor's Monday morning!  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 15: Bought items for the Kids Hope Shop at Place of Hope homeless shelter, an outreach for underprivileged kids in the area that lets kids "shop" for their families for free. We absolutely LOVE participating in this!  

Brought goodies to fire station
Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 16: Joined with the Central Minnesota Women Lawyers to provide resources and items to a shelter for women and children.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 17: Brought coloring books and crayons for kids on the children's unit of our local hospital, and coffee gift cards for parents who may need a little break.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 18: Quietly joined with others to pay off someone's medical bills this Christmas season.  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 19: Helped 411 underprivileged kids shop for their families, wrapped their presents, and served them a meal at Place of Hope. The 3+ hours I spent wrapping went by in the blink of an eye! We LOVE helping out with nights like this.  

Advent acts of Kindness, Day 20: Made cards for Nicole, a young woman who has been battling cancer this past year, as part of our Advent Acts of Kindness finale.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 21: Put treats in the mailbox for our mail carrier. We've done this before, but my girls LOVE to do it each year (I think they figure if they like to get mail, surely the carrier does, too?!)  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 22: Our church kids made cards for Nicole, the young woman fighting cancer.  

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 23: Made Christmas goodies and brought them to our neighbors.

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 24: We each packed up a birthday-in-a-box for a girl in need through the amazing Birthday Giving Project (an outreach of Family-to-Family). The ones we put together today in honor of my daughter Elise's 5th birthday will go to 3 and 5-year-old girls in Montrose, Arkansas, a community in which 84.7% of children under age 18 live below the poverty level. 

Advent Acts of Kindness, Day 25: Bought lunch for the car behind us! So, so fun.

Are you looking for more resources? Have you checked out our books?

We've written two kindness devotionals, The One Year Daily Acts of Kindness and 100 Days of Kindness. They tell the story of how our families embarked on a one-year journey of kindness, and include our successes, failures, and the encouragement you need as a family to incorporate kindness into your own life.

Our newest book, One Good Word a Day, offers simple but deeply spiritual meditations that will help readers linger on one word each day so they can identify and reflect on how Jesus as the Word influences their daily lives. 
Looking for encouragement in your friendships? Our adult friendship devotional, The One Year Daily Acts of Friendship, includes a daily scripture, story, and friendship prompt. It's encouraging and slightly challenging (in a good way!) in helping you find, keep, and love your friends.  
Our devotional for tweens is a great complement to our devotional for women! 100 Daily Acts of Friendship for Girls is written specifically for girls ages 8-12 as they navigate friendships in upper elementary and middle school. With a scripture, short story, reflection questions and 50 fun activities to do with you or friends, it's a wonderful way to encourage your daughter, niece, granddaughter, God daughter and her friends to build healthy friendships from an early age.

We would love to walk alongside you in encouragement, inspiration, and community. You can follow us on Facebook and Instagram as The Ruth Experience or sign up for our monthly newsletter (no spam, ever), here.

If you already have one of our books and love them, we'd so appreciate it if you leave a review on Amazon. 

We're in this together,

Kristin, Julie, and Kendra

Today we are once again linking up with Purposeful Faith!

Make A Difference Mondays is a weekly linkup designed to encourage and inspire us to live each day on purpose—making a meaningful difference in someone’s life in even the smallest of ways. Five women regularly co-host this link-up. Read on to learn more about the vision, mission, and how to link up!

Mission: Our mission is to provide a consistent gathering place for like-minded women to build online connections, share inspiration, and provide mutual encouragement and accountability as we seek to live intentionally and make a difference in the lives of those around us.

Vision: Every Monday we invite bloggers to link up any blog posts that encourage women to live life on purpose, including testimonies or goals from your own life, small acts of kindness or service, creative tips or ideas for showing consideration to others — the possibilities are endless. Our objective is to use our God-given time and resources to his glory! 

Also, just a heads-up: the Make A Difference Mondays team has created a Facebook community group to stay in touch beyond the blog posts AND we also have a new #MADMlinkup group Pinterest board: Make A Difference Mondays Pinterest Board.




  1. I LOVE these selfless and fabulous ideas to bless the lives of others I just shared it via Twitter and am pinning it, too. Thanks for being a light in a darkened world!

    1. Thanks so much for sharing Sarah Ann! We appreciate the support ;)

  2. What a great way to celebrate Advent! I love it!

  3. What a great opportunity to serve and love others and teach your children how to love and serve others.

    1. Thanks, Cheryl, teaching our kids kindness is one of our biggest aims. :)

  4. What wonderful acts of kindness! God bless you into 2015 and may these wonderful acts of kindness continue! Looking forward to reading more from you at #raralinkup and hearing more from The Ruth Experience :)

  5. Wow! I need to do something like this next advent. This is encouraging and I am in awe of all you did. WAY. TO. GO. The Lord is well pleased. You ladies are so easy to cheer on. Much love to you in the New Year.